#AskPhette: 101 – Self Love & Acceptance | #PhetteIsm


#AskPhette: 101

How does self love & self acceptance dictate how someone will treat you? How do you respond to someone who wants to treat you well if you don’t have a clear idea about who you are?

Self love & self acceptance are the blueprints, the guides to YOU. If something in the blueprint is off, erroneous, it’ll lead people in the wrong direction. When you don’t love and accept yourself, people will treat you as they see fit. It is your responsibility to show people how to treat you by providing them with the correct blueprint. Remember, people treat us by how we allow them to.

If you don’t have a clear idea about who you are, you cannot effectively receive someone who wants to treat you well. You’ll probably be able to discern that this person wants to do good by you, but you will subconsciously, or maybe even knowingly, sabotage it (the budding relationship) because of your past or other issues, that weren’t addressed. When you know who you are, know your worth, and what you deserve, you’ll welcome the well treatment.


*Disclaimer: This is for entertainment purposes only. I am by no means a professional. I’m simply sharing my opinions/experiences and what has or hasn’t worked for me. I am a Guru of my life and my life only.

I am NOT anti-social…I’m an #INFP | @phettehollins

I’m really not anti-social, y’all. I’ve been called this for yearrrrssssss, though.

Check the vid to see what I just learned about myself, very recently.

Big Girl Panties & Sexy Specs | #PhetteHollins

Sometimes you have to make tough decisions, handle what life throws at you. When that happens, it’s time to be a big girl & pull up/put on your big girl panties. Orrrr, as I also like to say “Put on your Sexy Specs.”

Watch the vid to see what I mean.

Picking A Fit: The “Single by Choice” Edition | Phette Hollins

Single & loving it!!!

I’m prepping myself for the next right one!!! Check out the vid for more!!!!

Being FREE: Living your life…FREE’ly | #Authenticity #PhetteHollins #GettingToFree

Wanna live your life freely? Here’s how:
1. Identify what FREE looks like to you.
2. Know yourself.
3. Make & take time to get to FREE!
4. STEW in you.

Watch the video for more:

My #1 Relationship Killer –A response to Trent Shelton’s video | @phettehollins

This video is in response to Trent Shelton’s video – Protect your relationship.

His message really spoke to me and had me thinking of the things I did wrong in the past.

Ck it out and let me know your thoughts.

My #1 Relationship Killer

The INFP (Healer & Idealist) in Relationships | @phettehollins

It’s July 5th y’all.
Did y’all eat a lotta grub?
Not me.
I had a business meeting then ate some regular ol food. #IntrovertedProblems

Meanwhile, I posted a vid about how my personality type affects my relationships. Please ck it out & let me know what ya think!!!

Find out your personality type —>>> MBTI Test