It’s 2 days after the #SCOTUS announced the legalization of same-sex marriage, and some folks are all in a tizzy. Like, if you’re opposed, homophobic, religious, or just straight-up hate/dislike it…guess what? DON’T MARRY SOMEONE OF THE SAME SEX!!!! Easiest solution EVER!!!!
As open-minded & understanding as I am, I absolutely cannot comprehend why who someone LOVES gets naysayers so vexed. How is that hurting YOU? How does that affect YOU?
Come Judgment Day, you (NAYSAYERS) are not gonna be persecuted by homosexual association. I’m almost, like, 500% sure of that. Now, watch out if you’ve ever slept with someone else’s spouse, stolen…ya know. Stuff like that.
But anyhoo…I digress…kind of.
I’ve barely scratched the surface about being a lesbian and how I went from being married to a man for almost 6 years to “coming out” and having a girlfriend.
I will talk specifics at a later time, but the gist is, I didn’t “come out.” I refer to it as “coming out again” because I was in relationships with women prior to my ex-husband and identified as bisexual for many years because I didn’t know who I was.
I know now that I am a lesbian and identify as such, and have for a while.
I’ve admired women for most of my life and never really wanted to be married to one. Yeah, I’ve liked some and loved a couple. But…marriage? Naw!!!!
This all changed a few months ago. Right after I declared I was single, someone swooped in and changed that. Showing me something different than what I’d been seeing, than what I’d been experiencing.
She didn’t speak about it, she was about it. She didn’t just talk, she backed it up. She came to me with a clean slate and an open heart. She came…READY!!!
Sooooo…on Friday, June 26th when the Supreme Court of the United States legalized same-sex marriage…