Picking A Fit: The “Single by Choice” Edition | Phette Hollins

Single & loving it!!!

I’m prepping myself for the next right one!!! Check out the vid for more!!!!

Being FREE: Living your life…FREE’ly | #Authenticity #PhetteHollins #GettingToFree

Wanna live your life freely? Here’s how:
1. Identify what FREE looks like to you.
2. Know yourself.
3. Make & take time to get to FREE!
4. STEW in you.

Watch the video for more:

My #1 Relationship Killer –A response to Trent Shelton’s video | @phettehollins

This video is in response to Trent Shelton’s video – Protect your relationship.

His message really spoke to me and had me thinking of the things I did wrong in the past.

Ck it out and let me know your thoughts.

My #1 Relationship Killer

The INFP (Healer & Idealist) in Relationships | @phettehollins

It’s July 5th y’all.
Did y’all eat a lotta grub?
Not me.
I had a business meeting then ate some regular ol food. #IntrovertedProblems

Meanwhile, I posted a vid about how my personality type affects my relationships. Please ck it out & let me know what ya think!!!

Find out your personality type —>>> MBTI Test

Love Languages | @phettehollins #LoveLanguage #Communication

Great day y’all!!!!

Do y’all know about the 5 love languages? If you’re obsessed with assessments like I am, I’m sure you’ve run across this one.

Knowing your love language and that of your partner’s is paramount. Take the quiz for ya self: Love Language Quiz.

In addition to that, knowing who you are as a person also helps when it comes to communicating effectively. My personality type is: INFP = Introverted, iNtuitive, Feeling, Perceiving. Read more about me and this particular personality type HERE and HERE, TOO!!!

And if you haven’t done so, take the test. I’m telling you, it has changed my life by helping me to better understand who I am as a person and what it is I’m meant to do with my life.

Embracing being single | @phettehollins

Happy Sunday y’all!!!!

This week’s vid is about me being single and how I’m embracing it.

I’m single…and ready to mingle…SIKE!!! But I am single tho!

I was invited to a birthday party…this is #EPIC | #AddressNotSuppress #phettehollins @phettehollins

Hi y’all!

Guess what? I was invited to a birthday party. :)

I talked a little bit before about my ex-husband’s side of the family and how after the divorce, they divorced me as well.

My ex-husband and I struggled for well over a year to get on the same page, and I’m happy to say that we finally are. We remained cordial, for the most part, throughout this whole ordeal and have actually become friends, which I wanted 2 years ago, but it was toooooo soon. I talk about it in THIS video and THIS ONE. Check ’em out if you haven’t done so. Please. :-)

Even though we’ve been on speaking terms since the divorce and have even ended up at some of the same gatherings, functions…shoot, I’ve even invited him to mine, he’s never invited me to any of his “family” gatherings. Until yesterday.

Why this is beyond EPIC

This is epic because, this says we are for real for real friends and that he has forgiven me for not only ending the marriage but for the way I ended it. **I talk about that in the other vids** It’s not what you do, it’s how you do it. I totally handled that situation improperly, and I’ve told him so as well.

I was nervous at first but quickly settled in. Our daughter was shocked and happy to see me. She often asks why I don’t come around anymore. I explain to her why. So it felt good to see that big smile on her face.

I exchanged hugs with a few folks and even had a long conversation with a childhood friend who told me I’ll always be her “girl”, but she doesn’t approve of my lifestyle because she doesn’t believe in homosexuality. She’s entitled. Whatever…

Overall, I had a good time. It wasn’t the party that made it great, it was the invitation.

Enjoy the rest of your day, and don’t forget, in order to heal, you gotta keep it real.